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Yakuza Moon

Yazuka Moon- Memoirs of a gangster's daughter
I have been dying to lay my hands on this book for ages, or should i say years? The Japanese yakuza is a significant part of Japan's society culture and they are comparable to the mafia culture in Italy. Well, i will do some book reviews after reading it....i felt like doing a second degree in Japanese and get a PHD in Japanese one day too...and i am thinking of spending another year in Aussie to do my Master degree...oh i havent start my kendo training yet too....


I got myself a little japanese charm at Kinokuniya today, that's the place where i spent most of my time in the city at. I saw Alan, a friend from my japanese class today at Kinokuniya, he's the guy who loves dressing up like those guys in the Japanese Egg magazine.....












I was one of the participants on Sunday's Sydney Bridge Run. Nice warm weather. There were so many Japanese and i am ashamed to say that the Japanese Ojichan looked fitter than i am. It's nice to see so many people gathering at the same place for the passion of running and taking part in marathons. Oh, Yuki got a gold medal in the judo competition on Sunday ne. おめでとう。。。

Oh how can i forget about the day trip to Jervis Bay with Kentaさん on Saturday！I saw the biggest temple in the Southern Hemisphere on the way there!!　本当に楽しかったですよ！ありがとう！今度、Bondi Beachに一緒に行きましょう!



I found a new place to shop for yoga wear at Pitt Street!!!Lululemon, hailing all the way from the States!


XOXO
ゆき

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I am so addicted to　甘酒。。。Overdosing on it... sugar high alert!
Good luck to 祐希's Judo competition in Brisbane! you are such a good drinker.

XOXO
Christine

L'amour

Rainy day. Studying. Listening to Carla Bruni. Her voice is so soothing.

My magazines.









Akira Isogawa bag, complimentary gift in this month's Harper's Bazaar.
I love that flowy looking dress from Sportsgirl that costs AUD$200+......

Yoga tomorrow.

Love,
Christine

Temptations of Whitsunday

I am so going there...Whitsundays!!!!!!!
Paradise on earth, perfect place for some scuba diving action, too bad i don't have a diving license yet.
Oh dear...i think i will miss Australia really badly after i graduate.

The tourism advertisement for Whitsunday Island is so captivating, combining luxury, beautiful lanky models in designer bikinis i assume, and the heavenly attractiveness of Whitsunday.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoFmUQNh2vs&feature=related

Time to calculate my travelling expenses again, oh i guess i need to draw up a travelling plan at the same time.
Places that i want to go to:

1. Melbourne
2. Auckland
3. Fiji
4. Cairns
5. Whitsunday
6. Wollongong
7. Newcastle

Love,
Christine

Jets Swimwear by Jessika Allen

Announcements for all the sun worshipping fashionistas out there.
I have found a great Australian swimwear designer brand, Jets, tailored to people who wants swimwear to exude classiness and sexiness at the same time. Think holidaying in fashionable and elegant swimwear by the crystal blue waters in Maldives, lying on the fine white sands, sipping a cosmopolitan in perfectly manicured hands with the sun rays kissing on your tender skin.

These are my favourite designs from the current collection.









A description of the brand.
Stylish, sophisticated and sexy, Jets Swimwear creates an elegant silhouette both in and out of the water.

The Jets by Jessika Allen™ label, approaching its 30th anniversary was shifted to the forefront of Australian and International fashion when it was bought and re-launched by Jessika and Adrian Allen in 2001.
As a premium luxury swimwear brand Jets by Jessika Allen™ upholds a standard of superior quality through its heritage of craftsmanship and unique design style. An efficient and specialised distribution as well as an active interest in technology & innovation ensures the strength of the Jets by Jessika Allen™ brand.

Selling to prestige fashion boutiques and department stores all over the world including Harvey Nichols, Selfridges and Fenwicks in the UK, Holt Renfrew in Canada, El Palacio de Hierro in Mexico, Lane Crawford in Hong Kong and David Jones in Australia; Jets by Jessika Allen™ is also available in the USA, Dubai, France, Spain, Greece, Switzerland, Germany, Netherlands, Japan, Singapore, Bahamas, Fiji and New Zealand.


Time for some sun salutation , my beautiful ladies.


Love
Christine

Four Ways to Grow Your Relationship

We all have picture-perfect notions of what a relationship should be. Some are crucial: Disagreement on subjects like monogamy, alcohol, and kids can and should be real deal-breakers. Other issues, however, may not be as nonnegotiable as you think. Sundays are for snuggling. I can only marry a vegan. Holiday celebrations should always be at my parents'. There's absolutely nothing wrong with these views. But, as anyone in a serious or committed relationship knows, they can escalate into power struggles -- the kind that can turn you into a couple who makes wisecracks about each other in secret.

So what do you do when your mate doesn't conform to your ideals? The conventional answers are to a) set clear boundaries in some cases, and b) be willing to compromise in others. This is excellent advice. The problem is that most of us interpret this as a) "I'm not going to love you unless you change" and b) "Sometimes I'll do what you want, but I think it's dumb."

Here's another suggestion to contemplate: Experiment with giving up your preference. I know, this is a tricky thing to do. I'm not suggesting you martyr yourself or become a passive-aggressive wimp. Instead, try surrendering your preference as an act of power and big-heartedness. You can give from a sense of emotional abundance, not poverty.

In Buddhist thought, there are four qualities that can turn "you owe me big time" into "I choose to give you my love." Called the Four Immeasurables, these principles show us how to neutralize anger and judgment without "giving in" or feeling like a doormat or a phony. Even though they might sound super-spiritual, they're really just ordinary things that anyone can do. Cultivate these Buddhist basics and you'll greatly improve your relationship in the long run.

Loving-Kindness
Your vision
Mornings spent together.

The reality
He ignores your attempts at chit-chat and instead grunts and grabs coffee on his way out the door.

Try
Loving-Kindness
If your dream relationship includes waking up together and spending the first hour of the day cuddling and talking, his early departure can feel like a brush-off. Trying to make him a morning person may indeed prove a lost cause, so consider the many other chances in the day to connect. The Buddhist concept of loving-kindness isn't about being nice all the time; it's about figuring out how to love beyond your predetermined view of love. Instead of thinking, "If he really loved me, he would stay with me in the morning," focus instead on your wish to love and be loved -- which can happen any time of day. Let him know that you are disappointed, but also use this conflict as an extraordinary way to stretch the boundaries of your own heart -- and to push past your preconceptions.

Compassion
Your vision
He's the life of the party.

The reality
He'd rather stay in.

Try
Compassion
So your partner may not hold court at cocktail parties or regale your dinner guests with hilarious tales. This is where compassion comes into play. Simply acknowledge that, just like you, he also wants to be appreciated for who he is. Instead of "Why doesn't he want to go out more and be social?" you can think, "I don't want either of us ever to be forced into situations where we're uncomfortable or out of our element." Including both of you in the wish to be comfortable prevents you from setting up a him-against-you situation. The goal isn't just to endure the fact that your man isn't a social dynamo. It's to love and accept him as he is. This way, you nurture a sense of openheartedness, rather than impatience.

Sympathetic Joy
Your vision
We take all of our vacations together.

The reality
He can't wait to go fly-fishing with his brothers.

Try
Sympathetic Joy
Whereas compassion allows you to feel your partner's pain, sympathetic joy allows you to share his happiness, too. This Buddhist concept doesn't imply that you should pretend to be thrilled for him when you're not. It means that even though you're not excited about his choice, you can still feel happy when something genuinely makes him happy. Sure, you will have to address the bigger issues, if he goes on to take every vacation without you. But it is possible to appreciate what this trip means for him and still share your feeling of disappointment for yourself -- without mixing them together.

Equanimity
Your vision
No wearing shoes in the house -- just slippers.

The reality
You come home to find mud tracked all over the white carpet.

Try
Equanimity
As you probably know, nagging your partner about his habits never really works. In fact, it tends to do the opposite of what you want -- building resentment rather than changing behavior. Equanimity, defined as the ability to remain calm and relaxed in the face of strong feelings, is the fourth and most important Immeasurable -- with good reason. Without this sense of composure, for example, loving-kindness could easily become martyrdom, and sympathetic joy would simply be patronizing. By approaching the situation from an honest (as opposed to a manipulative) stance, you are better able to communicate your needs and have them heard. Even attempting to expand your perspective enough to fully understand the nature of the conflict, no matter how painful it is to you, will help restore equanimity. Like the other Four Immeasurables, equanimity begets equanimity. If you want more love and understanding, learn how to authentically offer these things to your partner -- over and over again. Open the gates of your own love, and you can have faith that the other person will do so, as well.

Article taken from www.wholeliving.com

Love,
Christine